Originally Posted by JDR13 
That's an understatement. 
I found vanilla FO3 pretty much unplayable by my standards. It's about as "casual" as an RPG could possibly be. Fantastic experience when properly modded though.
Based on the mods you listed recently (IIRC), the changes you needed were actually rather subtle, but they clearly made all the difference to you. I know developers hate offering too many options, but maybe they should think more about these aspects, especially if they
don't intend to release modding tools.