I think the biggest reason a certain lady is angry with me regarding traps is that my cleric and pallies have got so many hitpoints now that they don't care about traps anymore. So they just ignore the warnings and move to get through them.
Sometimes I hear words of frustration when my toon actually died from the trap. Then I hear her say "Peter, I TOLD you there was a trap there. Why don't you ever listen". I have a feeling I will get a huge bill in my mail saying I have to pay for the ulcer she will eventually get.