i only have this question to pose. how can a person do what is 'right' if what we understand is limited and evovling over time?
If he can't know what he's doing is right - then he's under no obligation to do anything, right or wrong?
That doesn't make sense to me.
In my world, we're limited just as you say by what we think we know, and as such we can only strive to use that knowledge to the best of our ability. Personally, that's what I practice as often as I can when I decide whether I should pay for a classic game that may or may not be abandonware. I have no desire to compensate the wrong people - but since I hardly ever play that kind of game I don't really have examples on hand. What you can do is name whatever title and tell me who's selling it and how they acquired the license to sell it - and I'll tell you if I'd bother paying for it or not.
As for the poor developers pouring their heart out to the mass market, I DO compensate them, because I think it's fair to give people payment for their work. That's why I purchase games like Mass Effect and Fallout 3 - even though I don't really want to support that particular direction for the industry.
That doesn't mean I think it's right or wrong - as I don't think in those terms. I have to take each individual situation and consider what I know carefully - because you can't generalise your choices in matters such as this, or at least I don't feel comfortable doing it.
So basically, I'm not really "raping" anyone as you say - but I wouldn't think twice about not paying if the people on the receiving end don't have it coming.
Oh, and about democracy reflecting its people - that's only partially true. But even if it was true - that's hardly an incentive to consider it a flawless political system. People are greedy and ignorant in general, myself included - though I strive to be so to a lesser degree than many. But laws are generally voted for by elected politicians - and whether we "chose" those people or not, we have no direct control over their choices or how the individual laws are formulated precisely.
Anyway, you may consider me an anarchist, but understand that anarchy might just be a very desirable state of the world if people had similar ideals and values. In fact, just thinking about a world full of DArtagnans (and female versions) makes me picture nothing but utopia