I'm sorry about your sister. Lost my dad to alcohol so I know it freakin sucks big time.
I guess it's sorta silly debating about which one is worse. I just see myself in these descriptions of the 'horrors' of MMOs. Just replace MMO with single-player games and that's me. The thing is I know I'm different, but I'm happy. I go to work, have a girlfriend, pay my bills and Sarah even gets me out of the house every now and then, but that's the way I want it. I skip all the outings at work or even getting too close to the other people because I normally have next to nothing in common with them. Truthfully I don't want to go through all those social rituals. I never understood them and never will.
On the other hand I have a lot in common with the people here because my whole life can be wrapped up into three things: Sarah/work/games (in that order). I can talk to the people here about things I know about. I don't know anything about who won the world series or how cool it was mountain climbing. I don't really care about that.
The thing that really annoys me are people making this out to be a bad thing. Like I said before if they are happy and functional then who gives a rats behind what makes them happy.
Oh and btw not everyone who enjoys playing games is fat. I'm not, check out my picture if you don't believe me. It's in the 'post your picture' thread
Anyways, I just thought I'd give you a different perspective. Not everyone wants to be normal. I sure as hell don't. Normal people annoy the heck out of me