Wicked Witch of Loliland
All hail. Nao.
@ CrazyLoon
Ah, I'm very sorry. The part about being disapointing remind me of someone else, and made me feel kind of confused all of a sudden. And I do remember now, I'm sorry. I just had a lapse because my brain was sure you were someone else who said something very similar to me, before.
I know. It is selfish. However, it isn't it also selfish for others to expect us to renounce to our dreams so they can keep enjoying theirs, or because our dreams would hurt them or their own?
The difference between the right hand and the left hand, at the end of the day, is about whether the individual should be sacrificed for the whole or the whole for the individual. And both, no matter how we see them, are shades of gray, not white and black.
And if one of them lacks the right to do so, the same does the other. So this is the kind of situation where you can only pick the one you feel comfortable with and go grom there, I believe.
It seems it is impossible to move through life without hurting people. You can decide, I will hurt as few as reasonably possible, but you can never say, I will hurt no one. Sooner or later you will have to hurt someone to reach for what you desire, or be you hurt when you renounce to it so that someone else reach for what she or he desires, and what right had she to hurt you to reach her dream when you had not the right to hurt her to reach yours?
However, one should also be brutally honest with herself. Like, am I renouncing to this out of my own will and nothing else, or am I renouncing to this because I'm scared, or it is easier to just renounce, or to have an excuse to be sad, etc? Most people, and that does not leave me or anyone outside, usually finds the later ones to be the truth, and the reasons to be just excuses. And I think it is kind of sad.
Ah, I'm very sorry. The part about being disapointing remind me of someone else, and made me feel kind of confused all of a sudden. And I do remember now, I'm sorry. I just had a lapse because my brain was sure you were someone else who said something very similar to me, before.
I know. It is selfish. However, it isn't it also selfish for others to expect us to renounce to our dreams so they can keep enjoying theirs, or because our dreams would hurt them or their own?
The difference between the right hand and the left hand, at the end of the day, is about whether the individual should be sacrificed for the whole or the whole for the individual. And both, no matter how we see them, are shades of gray, not white and black.
And if one of them lacks the right to do so, the same does the other. So this is the kind of situation where you can only pick the one you feel comfortable with and go grom there, I believe.
It seems it is impossible to move through life without hurting people. You can decide, I will hurt as few as reasonably possible, but you can never say, I will hurt no one. Sooner or later you will have to hurt someone to reach for what you desire, or be you hurt when you renounce to it so that someone else reach for what she or he desires, and what right had she to hurt you to reach her dream when you had not the right to hurt her to reach yours?
However, one should also be brutally honest with herself. Like, am I renouncing to this out of my own will and nothing else, or am I renouncing to this because I'm scared, or it is easier to just renounce, or to have an excuse to be sad, etc? Most people, and that does not leave me or anyone outside, usually finds the later ones to be the truth, and the reasons to be just excuses. And I think it is kind of sad.