I don't see a problem with EA using counter piracy measures. Until the torrent sites go the way of Megaupload (nicely done) they have to protect their property. Steam is a monopoly and last time I checked monopolies were bad for price competition. EA wants an exclusive title for exclusive sales and proliferation of their download client. Again… can you blame them?
Steam is a 'natural monopoly', like Google for search: in other words, they EARNED their market share.
You also have to separate Steam from Valve. Steam is a digital store that utilizes a number of user-centric tools to make for a better experience.
Valve makes games, and you can buy Valve games at retail as well ... but they utilize Steamworks for piracy protection, achievements, cross-platform play, cloud storage, and more.
When it comes to those tools ... Direct2Drive has nothing. GamersGate has nothing. Impulse has nothing. And so on.
The majority of games sold on Steam are NOT Valve games. That is a huge difference.
EA and Origin are one and the same - EA exists to make as much money as possible without regard to customers. Yeah that is true for most businesses, but pretending that EA isn't extreme in this regard is just denying reality and documented history of the past couple of decades.
The main sticking point between EA and Steam is that EA wants Steam to bring millions of customers and is willing to pay Steam their normal cut, but for any post-sale items (DLC) they want to cut Steam out. As I said - Steam is 100% correct in their assertion that if they bring the customers they deserve a fair share of revenue. Why? Because EA is such a crappy company that pretty soon they would be selling Dragon Age III as in-game for Mass Effect 3 to avoid paying royalties.
Origin was SUPPOSED to be a competitor to Steam, but instead EA has positioned it as an exclusionary way to maximize profits. They can bully sites like GamersGate to accept terms in exchange for hosting a big game, but Steam has enough clout to demand fair treatment.
EA's idea of fair is 'we buy ads, you give us 85% reviews or you will never get a pre-release game again', or 'we let you sell our game, you accept our unfair terms or else you don't get the game'. There is a reason they are regarded as the worst company in gaming - because THEY ARE. Let's not forget all of the coverage of the unfair labor practices a few years back.
I support competition - I have a bunch of games from GamersGate, and too many from Impulse and Direct2Drive that I have had to replace now that they are becoming tools to push other things for evil companies like GameFly and GameStop. But this isn't competition, anymore than what Google is doing these days is competition.
As I have read elsewhere, it is a shame when you are left with little choice but to root for failure. Because of EA approaching this like a typical EA move, I now want Mass Effect 3 to fail and for Origin to fail. Because otherwise it is a very bad portent for our industry.