Couch is doing a great job. I'm convinced that without him this place would have looked much less interesting.
I don't recall having received an e-mail via the contact link, submit news link (which goes to the news team) or personally. Nor did I receive a PM on this. So I do not know who was contacted at all.
Gamebanshee and RPGWatch are focusing on the same type of games and with just a few exceptions we are not generating the news ourselves. We are just reporting about it. This means it has always originated on a different site somewhere. If both Gamebanshee and RPGWatch quote the same text from that site, I doubt Gamebanshee has a copyright on that quoted text, just because they happen to have it earlier.
I rarely visit Gamebanshee these days. I find most news on twitter and often see tweets on news that might be interesting from various sources. I usually pick the site that had the original news or article and I quote from that. Unless it is an article from Gamebanshee, that site is almost never Gamebanshee.
When I visited Gamebanshee more regularly I did notice that in (p)review roundups we regularly share the same links to sites and sometimes even the same quoted texts, even when I reported the roundup earlier than Gamebanshee. I never thought they were stealing our news. It was just the amount of (p)reviews to be found if you looked for them and the conclusion is the easiest to copy as it sums up the (p)review best.
If I would use Gamebanshee as my news aggregate I would give them credit for it, but I don't, I use Twitter and almost never end up at Gamebanshee. Couch uses N4G quite a bit as he mentioned. Aries100 on the other hand does regularly use Gamebanshee as his source, but also links back to Gamebanshee when doing so.
I really doubt anyone on RPGWatch deliberately copy-pastes stuff from Gamebanshee without referring to them, but my suggestion would be that if their news staff has an issue with this, they and the news staff of RPGWatch can find a way of discussing this together to resolve this.