skavenhorde
Little BRO Rat
If that person can't be helped in any way, why should that person have to live a life she/he is convinced to be unbearable? How does one balance the pain of that person against the pain of those left behind? Why is one more important than the other?
No answers for you, my friend other than my experience of what happens afterwards.
Skavenhorde, I know nothing about the people you mentioned, so I feel in no position to form an opinion about them. Your post is however about how much it hurts you, not about how much the friend you are missing now was hurt by staying alive. It seems arrogant to me that you value your pain higher than hers.
Your right, maybe I'm envious (No sarcasm in that answer just flat out truth). She got out and I'm still here. She left us to deal with this life alone or I should say, she left me. There is a lot more to the story with my friend but I think two huge emotionally charged posts a day is enough.
I firmly belief that anyone is entitled to decide if they want to stay alive or not. I do think it should be a last resort, but when it comes down to it, it is their choice to make and nobody else.
If you care nothing about your loved ones then yea I can see your point. If you care anything about them then you try to make it work. With their help you persevere and as they say roll with the punches. There are of course extreme exceptions like you're in so much physical pain that life is just one agonizing moment to the next. I won't go into all of the different kinds of psychological pain because like you said how do you measure one pain against the other.