Kordanor
Wastelander
- Joined
- June 2, 2012
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Been in love: 2 times
Been in relationship: 0 times
I guess I am kind of a nutcase, considering I am 36 years old now.
I am not outgoing at all, so the only new people I meet are either new direct co-workers (hardly happening) or people on the internet. The 2 persons I mentioned before I actually met on the internet about 14-15 years ago. Visiting them in person wasn't the "horror scenario" as people like to paint it, but (for reasons too complex to share here) it ultimately didn't work out in either case and it remained at 1 visit each (after months of online conversations).
And in the first case I'd say now that I probably was in love back then, but back then I didn't feel sure about it.
So in the end I don't naturally encounter possibilities to fall in love, my "demands" are very high or specific, while what I "offer" is also extremely specific and hard to get along with, and I also need quite a while to actually figure out that I am in love.
Been in relationship: 0 times
I guess I am kind of a nutcase, considering I am 36 years old now.
I am not outgoing at all, so the only new people I meet are either new direct co-workers (hardly happening) or people on the internet. The 2 persons I mentioned before I actually met on the internet about 14-15 years ago. Visiting them in person wasn't the "horror scenario" as people like to paint it, but (for reasons too complex to share here) it ultimately didn't work out in either case and it remained at 1 visit each (after months of online conversations).
And in the first case I'd say now that I probably was in love back then, but back then I didn't feel sure about it.
So in the end I don't naturally encounter possibilities to fall in love, my "demands" are very high or specific, while what I "offer" is also extremely specific and hard to get along with, and I also need quite a while to actually figure out that I am in love.
- Joined
- Jun 2, 2012
- Messages
- 4,691