I love games.
I love games even more when I don't feel pushed away playing them. Not every game can be open world with full character customization, I know. And actually, I think now games that pretend that women (at least) don't exist are the minority instead of the majority. There are still some games where one can *only* play as a straight white man, and I simply don't buy them. You mentioned not wanting to play games where you're forced to play as characters you can't relate with, DArtagnan. I agree. I don't like those games either.
I don't dislike entire games because I can't relate to the main character, I just don't enjoy being forced into playing them - and that includes good games like the recent Tomb Raider.
But the point was that you can't please everyone - and I don't think it's fair to call someone homophobic and sexist because he points that out.
I'm just amazed that so many men seem so afraid of other people being better represented in games. Nothing's being taken away at all. I suppose that there were a lot of men in the US in the years leading up to 1920 that were terrified at the idea of women getting to vote. Now not many people really make a big deal about it. I think the same thing will happen with video games one day.
If men were afraid to have women vote, we would never have allowed it in the first place.
Your position was the natural result of men being superior in physical terms which made them the natural providers in the past - and it takes a lot of time and change to overcome our physical instincts.
I don't think you really understand what's going on here. Do you REALLY think "men" are afraid of presenting people in a better light? That's pretty ignorant, sorry.
Computer games were invented by men and the technology was invented by men. Men built the industry - and almost the entire audience used to consist of men.
Do you think that might have something to do with it?
Are male gamers to blame because women chose to ignore games as viable entertainment for so many years?
You didn't seem to give a shit and people who cared were considered nerds. Now they have to take up the mantle and represent everything that's wrong with human behavior?
It's not a male thing to have the dominant gender dominate, sorry. That's a human thing.
I think you're displaying an extremely sexist and narrow point of view.
Men aren't afraid to open their arms - but these things don't change over night. Again, it takes a lot of time to change the nature of things - and if women had cared about computers and technology from the beginning, they could have had a larger say. I certainly can't remember a lot of girls from my childhood lamenting not being gamers.
Quite the opposite, I'd say.