No, at first, they just don't know that they re too sensitive. They do try to be and behave like everyone else. And then they wonder why they feel so … different.
It's like … try this picture : You have an allergy against some kind of food, but you don't
realize it. And thn you keep on eating this particular food
because everyone else does it, too, and then you wonder why you feel afterwards so … bad, meanwhile
everyone else just doesn't. This makes you wonder at one point, and only if you visit a doctor he or she might help you find out that there is actually an allergy behind it !
And then you've ot to learn to avoid it.
It's imilar with let's say movies, parties, loud concerts etc. . These people just
want to be like everyone else, but they can't. They feel … well,
different. When they copmplain about loudness, hey might receive an "oh, don't be so picky, it
can't be that loud !" by "normal" people.
It has also something to do with peer pressure. If you're within a group of friends, and you
realize that you don't feel too well after visiting a loud and full party with LOTS of people - then you'll have to fight peer pressure, too. You might
want to be within your circle of friends but you feel bad in the wrong environments (or with the wrong movies) and everyone else just doesn't.
It's a thing of self-realization, actually. And this is hard work at first.
Because perhaps people might want to persuade and that "it just can't be that loud", one is "too picky", "rtoo touchy", and perhaps even that "there must be something wrong with you". It isn't. People re just
different, nothing else.
But sensitive people often suffer because their sensitivity just isn't acknowledged as something just different. People might begin making jokes or do as if the sensitive person is just an
hypochonder.
If sensiive people just learn to stay away from what doesn't themgood, then it is a "win-win situation" for both parties : The sensiive ones feel better, and the not-so-sensitive ones just can have some fun.
But until this knowledge of sensitivity is spread - and generally accepted in society as not being something curious, but only as something
different - as long as this is not done, there might still be discussions and quarrels between people pro and contra violence, in movies or in games, or example.
Because people don't realize the
difference between people(s).
Because right now everyone assumes that a certain kind of being is "the norm" and everything else (who doesn't belong to that norm) is just … wrong. Or sick. Or a Freak at least.
And this is why I loved the movie called "How o train your dragon" so much : There
IS someone who is ENTIRELY ifferent than the norm - AND he is able to enhance the society -
IF the people decide to listen to him !
As I always say : We need many, many more people like "Hiccup", the protagonist from this movie. Because i believe, if people would decide to listen to these … "aliens", then society might become a little bit better.
