I bought some juice in the supermarket the other day, and it was not as nice as I had hoped it would be. Rather than go to a juice discussion board and rant endlessly about how this juice isn't exactly how I personally want it to be, I instead don't buy it again. I move on to something else.
The fact that this is a discussion board doesn't make it any less bizarre that some people seem to prefer discussing games they don't like than games they do like. It's not as if there aren't plenty of other RPGs on the horizon. Most people prefer to discuss games, movies, music, tv shows etc that they do like.
You might buy something and find that it's not what you expected and make a post about it in a release thread, that would be normal behaviour on a discussion board. On this board it's gotten so that you can't read through the threads without having to wade through hordes of posters complaining that the game isn't their idea of a perfect RPG.
More and more, I'm taking my own advice and moving on to forums that are more enjoyable to read.
*sigh*
This forum is
full of posts about games that we can't wait to play and games that we thought were great. But when you have diverse personalities all congregating to the same place, not everyone is going to agree about everything. It is intellectually stimulating to have conversations discussing the strengths and weaknesses of those games. If we sat around and agreed with each other and had a great big love-in, we would be very polite and nice, but we would also be vapid and fake.
The fact that a fair number of us don't like Game X or Game Y doesn't make us irrational bitches, either. Using your own example for my own; if you buy orange juice you don't like, you don't have to worry, because the aisles are full of all different kinds of orange juice. There are ~3-5 major RPG releases a year, with a bunch of indies thrown in the mix. The major releases get the most hype, the most promotion, the most marketing exposure, so they get the most scrutiny. The fact that there aren't that many alternatives being offered notwithstanding, the business model employed by successful major developers puts pressure on smaller devs and publishers when it comes time to make their games.
Lastly, the vast majority of people on this board are pretty open-minded and well behaved. I've been on a lot of different boards over the years, and I've kinda set up shop here, because there seems to be a good balance between debate and civility. I've said time and time again: Feel free to buy and love whatever games you want. Your taste is none of my business, and I'll not make you feel like some kind of Philistine based on your choices.
I however think things are a little f**ked up in RPG land, and if you want to engage me, or anyone else on this site, in conversation disputing this opinion, I'm all for it. But please, don't dismiss my opinions or denigrate them. If you can't handle that level of decency and freedom of thought, don't let the door hit you on the ass on the way out.