Yea, that is the main problem with voiceovers these days in games...what if we don't like the voice, or worse, hate the voice? Are we just outta luck? Having said that, personally I think the male voice for V is "ok", not what I would choose if I had good options, but its not something I hate.
I do think mods and voiceover AI can be a good solution for this, but it would be nice if maybe they (the developers) included one other voice for each main character to choose from! Even if its done through AI voice over, but just give us a choice. And this is also a thing in BG 3 by the way, they went with a female narrator and she is once again "ok", but I would prefer a different voice as narrator, maybe even *gasp!* a male narrator! (I know, I know, this is blasphemy!) They have a mod for a male voice narrator in BG 3, but you have to search around for it, in the "dark corners", apparently it hurt too many peoples feelings or something, and they removed it from nexus mods.
I maintain that people should be free to be able to mod their game however they want, with no outside interference, and it doesn't hurt anyone. Even if they substitute a male narrator voice that they happen to prefer, over a female narrator. Amen.